(610) 463-5492 gronskij15@gmail.com

Taking The Helm

By John Gronski

When you are entering a new leadership position it is always very exciting. You will want to get things right from the very beginning.

As a younger, inexperienced leader I made mistakes. Some blunders I made included thinking I knew everything there was to know about leadership, changing things right away before taking the time to understand what was really going on, and not taking the time to listen to teammates who had a great deal of time and experience working in the organization I was new to.

The crazy thing was, in theory I knew about some of these pitfalls to avoid. Still, I was a bit too aggressive and perhaps arrogant. I made things harder on myself and the organization than it needed to be. Fortunately, I was able to recover quickly once I had the sense to realize I was treading down the wrong path. Usually, it was a teammate who helped me to see the light early enough before a lot of damage was done.

I would like to share some lessons with fellow leaders about taking a new leadership position, whether it be with an organization you have been with for a while or a completely new team.

Approach the role with humility. Seek to understand before seeking to be understood. Avoid coming across as having all the answers.

Invest time upfront to build relationships and trust with your new team. Listen and learn what motivates each person. To grow trust, you must allow yourself to be vulnerable and trust others first, even if you do not know them very well.

Before initiating big strategic changes, observe and assess what’s working well and identify real pain points. Evolution is preferable to revolution. Ask others what they think. Ask them what is working and what is not working. An interesting question to ask others is what they would change if they were in charge.

 It is important to use the input of the team you have assembled around you. Collaboratively solve problems. A good practice is to circle back with people who have provided suggestions and explain to them why or why not you have decided to use their recommendations. When you decide to make a change, explain the rationale.

Model the leadership behaviors and culture you wish to see. Your team will follow your lead so set the tone through your actions. An organization does take on the personality of its leader. If the leader is sloppy and does not care the organization will be sloppy and will not care. If the leader is professional and customer service focused the organization will be too. When you see someone demonstrating the behavior you are looking for, celebrate it. Recognize people who are helping to create the culture you are looking for.

Develop a feedback loop with your team and those you serve. Continuously gather input, reflect, and refine your leadership approach. Ask people how you are doing and consider their comments.

After gaining input from your teammates, create and communicate a shared vision and purpose. Do not assume the people in your organization understand your expectations and priorities. You must communicate these things at every opportunity. The people you lead are not mind readers. Communicate the same message repeatedly to create a shared understanding.

Connect the team’s roles to the bigger vision and purpose of the organization. Help people feel their contributions matter. You must create a sense of belonging for those on your team. When you ask people their opinions and empower them to demonstrate initiative and make decisions within their range of skill and experience you help to create that sense of belonging. When people make honest mistakes take the opportunity to coach them and help them learn from those mistakes.

Support your team by removing roadblocks, providing development opportunities, and recognizing achievements. Enable their success. Be on the lookout for resources they require to do their jobs better and do all you can to provide the resources your team needs.

Invest in mentoring and developing emerging leaders on the team. A key measure of success is growing the next generation. One of the most important roles of any leader is to develop future leaders.

Hold yourself accountable to act with integrity even when it’s difficult. Take the high road. When you mortgage your values to get ahead, you only get behind.

The first months are crucial to build the foundation for success. Remain strategic but flexible, collaborative, and focused on serving your team.

About John Gronski

Major General John L. Gronski (U.S. Army Retired) is the founder and CEO of Leader Grove LLC, a leadership consulting firm. John is the author of two books, “Iron-Sharpened Leadership” and “The Ride of Our Lives” and he is an international and Fortune 500 speaker. Learn more about John Gronski at https://johngronski.com/

Continue To Learn

John created a great online leadership development program. You can take online leadership development courses including Cultivating Trust, Introduction to Emotional Intelligence, and Conflict Management. Once you complete a course, take a short quiz, attain an 80% score, and download a certificate of completion. Find out more and enroll at Store.LeaderGrove.com

How Friction and Connection Drive True Leadership

By John Gronski The proverb "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another" (Proverbs 27:17) remains one of the most enduring metaphors for personal growth, mutual influence, and the power of accountability. At its core, it describes how people improve,...

Organizational Effectiveness and the Lessons of Proverbs 27:17

One of my favorite Bible verses is Proverbs 27:17: "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." At its core, this verse is an ancient metaphor for mutual improvement, intentional accountability, and the power of high-caliber relationships. It uses the...

Failure Isn’t Final. Not Trying Is.

I recently listened to the commencement speech Tom Brady delivered at Georgetown University’s McDonough School of Business on May 16, 2026. In his address, he spoke about the New England Patriots' historic comeback victory in Super Bowl LI over the Atlanta Falcons on...

Patience, Faith, and the Leader’s Timeline

I have learned one of the most challenging leadership lessons: patience. Not everything happens on our timeline—often, it unfolds on God’s timeline. Years ago, a friend’s daughter struggled with alcoholism and drug addiction. We prayed for her recovery, and if I’m...

Say It So They See It: Leadership Lessons Through Idioms

By John Gronski For many years, I’ve been captivated by idioms—those familiar phrases whose meanings go far beyond their literal words. Idioms serve as vivid, memorable shorthand, allowing us to communicate complex ideas with clarity and impact. Instead of simply...

Your Title Doesn’t Make You a Leader – Imperatives to Lead By

By John Gronski All of us are in a leadership position. That position may be formal, or it may be informal. We may lead a family, a small team, or an organization of any size. If nothing else, we must lead ourselves. There is an interesting truth about leadership....

Building Great Teams

By John Gronski Recently, I listened to a February 2026 press conference held by Matt Campbell, the new head coach of the Penn State Nittany Lions. I always enjoy hearing what fellow leaders have to say. Leadership lessons are everywhere if we are willing to listen...

Real Results, Less Time: Non-Degree Programs That Actually Deliver

By guest blogger Jesse Clark You don’t need a degree to become more confident, more effective, or more respected. What you need is a way forward that works — fast, flexible, and focused on outcomes. That’s where non-degree programs shine. Think: executive coaching...

Five Daily Actions

With Thanksgiving recently behind us and the end of the year closing in, it is a great time to reflect. What have you done in the past year, the past month, the past day, to develop yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually? What actions do you take...

Adapting to Economic Shifts: Local Strategies That Build Resilience Through Community

by Jesse Clark There’s a moment in nearly every small business lifecycle when the floor feels like it’s shifting. Revenue dips. Customers change. The headlines scream uncertainty. And yet, some local businesses don’t just survive these moments—they adapt with...
Share This